Law Of Attraction Coach: Understanding The “Magic Formula” To Retaining Lasting Romantic Relationships

Posted by admin on May 19th, 2010 filed in Uncategorized

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

For the first time in my life, I find myself knowing so many people in great romantic partnerships, primarily long-lasting marriages. For example Don and Barbara. I think they have been married 60+ years. I hadn’t seen Barbara prior to her quite long hospital visit that began in late December! I finally made sure to bring over some flowers and spend some quality time with frail little Barbara. Barbara and Don are models for Robert and I. Their relationship is a perfect model of a stable, deep, lasting love. After my visit with her I was so moved by the depth of their relationship. They have 6 grown children and are relishing in the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don cares for Barbara with unfailing faith that her strength will come back.

Seeing this type of connection transcends words, really. The atmosphere was filled with knowing and enduring. Words fail me as I attempt to express their union.

Then there are my in-laws. Here again, an example of two lovers who’ve had to endure a life full of ups and downs. There is a stability and enduring effect that is so grounding and comforting. They’ve produced kids who have aspirations of relationships based on communication, mutual respect, laughing, and love. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to understand.

In contrast, there are households under which a lot people have grown up in where guilt, hate, and anxiety were a commonplace. Interestingly, in either case, there is no “guarantee” that we’ll model our Mom and Dad. Failed marriages and relationships still occur when the parents’ relationship was stable and based on love, mutual values, and respect.

Is It A Magic Formula?

So what’s actually going on there? They seem to have a magic formula down pact. Has it always been that simple for them? I do not think so. But, they have continuously sustained their will to manifest and re-create possibility in their love. I’m sure life wasn’t always sweet and easy for them. But they went back to the meaning of who they are in their relationship with each other. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!

So why is it different for a lot of us? Everyone came into this life experience desiring some of this and a some of that. To mix it up. Granted, we seem to be awakening into a transcending reality in which we can choose more of what we really want, instead of going on creation-by-default mode. We’ve figured out how to use the contrast as a point of distinguishing; realizing the contrast of a bad partnership to get a clearer picture of what we want in a relationship that works; one that is is filled with love and open communication.

Of course the contrast is good information. But what if you have had just about as much contrast as you can handle and you don’t know what course of action to take next? If you have read “Create the Love of Your Dreams” or you haev been studying any of the Law of Attraction teachers, they all say, keep your nose directed to the direction of what it feels like to already have what it is you want. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move off outdated patterns much faster.

I will give you that in a lot of scenarios it seems easier said than done. That’s where retaining a practice and an accountability comes into play. Why live life feeling at the receiving end of it rather than at the Source of it? Find a group, or a buddy and start co-creating some juicy relationship affirmations and keep each other to your thoughts and actions.

There is also personal coaching. It’s not like therapy that some people continue for years and years. Coaching is done to empower you to see where you need to tweak your vibration and understand your own personal inner powers so you can start to manifest the life of your dreams.